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Nocturnatum

Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:33 am

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As of posting this I have just began reading the Crash Course and have grown very fond of the layout and the style of the book.
I'm still not exactly sure what's going to be in the book that I've not read about before but I'm sure that the format and content will give me a warm feeling inside. Laughing

The audios contained in the www.becomeaplayer.com website have been downloaded as mp3's onto my mp3 player and I keep listening to them as there is more information in each one than you might initially hear. Cool

This post will be an ongoing project, kind of like a blog about my own experience with the Crash Course.
Update 1: Began reading the Crash Course, very impressed.

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Posted: Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:42 am

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Here are some notes from todays reading.

INNER GAME.
YOU are the Trophy! What you sow you shall reap. It is your purpose and your future. See yourself as a person of value. There is no reason to be eager. People appreciate things of high value. Mirror actions and respect. Tease her when she tests you and tease her about things. Play with words. Change is the only constant in life. Keep the habits and beliefs that help you.
The Trophy Mentality.
You are The Trophy.
She wants you.
She needs you to want her.
She has to prove that she is worth it.
Think fun, not outcome!
You are The Trophy mentality.

Player Mission Statement.

The most important thing you can remember is to stay cool at all times.
The only person you have to impress is the one wearing your own shoes.
Live life on your terms and go out to entertain yourself.
The others will see how good of a time you are having and will join you.
Repeat until you see it in your mind’s eye.

Question: Could the Player Mission Statement be used as an affirmation set?

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Nocturnatum

Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 2:57 pm

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Today I read a bit more.. Just taking small steps with the CC so I can make efforts simultaneously with the book. Consciously putting efforts into the CC material as well as reading it should give me a good habit of applying the information I learn into my character.

Here are some notes which are not in any particular form.

There is an AFC mindset which you should never fall into and a PUA mindset which a person sees the world as a playground for seduction. Any woman would be lucky to be with a guy with the PUA mindset even if the AFC is good looking. Looks are not everything, just a bonus. Game is all that matters. Game a woman right and she’ll be eating out of your hands. You need to be the man in control. Adopt the PUA mindset and feel as though you’re on a pedestal. FACT: Women are attracted to “bad boys”. Bad Boys create emotions. Women seek emotional stimulation on many levels at once. They are also attracted to adventure. Display a bad boy image through body language and non verbal communication. Appear as a bad boy visually. Employ Negs into your natural behaviour when talking to women. Learn to pass shit tests. Be Cocky and Funny erring on the side of being cocky more than funny. Use Kino liberally. Never put a woman on a pedestal. Constantly work on confidence. Use the push/pull technique often.
Always be a challenge but do not be overpowering. A balance is needed to avoid the two polar personalities. The alpha male is cool. Be comfortable being yourself. Cool people are unaffected by things. “It is what it is!” Be the better man = Get all of the women. The Leader of the Pack. Women love alphas because they are confident in themselves. Being an alpha male is all about attitude. Being the alpha male is self perpetuating. The more you believe you are the alpha male, the more you will become the alpha male and other people, especially women will begin to notice. Start being dominant and powerful today!

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Posted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 2:59 pm

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Also, I've written down The Trophy Mentality and the Player Mission Statement which I am going to memorise. Cool

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Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 5:27 pm

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Notes for today..

As a player it is your duty to not treat women badly. There is no need to deceive. The first love is self love, then family, then friends. Other Alphas are not to be feared or envied. They are to be critiqued, studied, learned. Confidence earns respect. It is viewed highly by all. Confidence is a mindset. Nothing will ever happen unless you make it happen. Believe in yourself. Alpha Confidence doesn’t waver much. Fear is Illogical. Think about the outcomes and rewards. The Ever Deceptive “Youniverse effect”. Nobody really cares or notices if you get rejected. Without the youniverse effect, ambition could not exist. Rejection is a part of the game that we call Love. 4 T’s Rejection Chart. Timing, Taken, Talking, Totally Interested. Pedastaling is the downfall of many guys. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don’t just stick to one. Earn the right to be selective, then use it. Better yet, abuse it.

I'm finding the Crash Course pretty basic but the points made are very useful and true. Adopting the thoughts provided in the crash course is definitely the way to go. On a simple level this is just a reading exercise.. but if you take the time and put the effort into understanding, learning and applying the stuff in the crash course then you will be improving as a person.

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If a girl puts you in her friend zone, let her go. If you are put in the LJBF zone, the best thing you can do is find three or four other girls to game. This normally happens if you haven’t created enough attraction. The best method to get out of the LJBF zone is to avoid contact. Think fun, not outcome! Be a different person the next time you see her, neg her, tease her etc. Women desire a high value Alpha male. Women want what they can’t have. Finding a ‘middle road’ between nice guy and jerk is ideal. Don’t be her man-servant, don’t be her tissue, don’t buy her things like you would a spoiled child. Looks DO matter. Take PRIDE in your appearance. Cut, wash and comb your hair. Eat right, exercise, make sure your clothes fit properly. It’s all about looking your best. Even so, game is all that matters. Looking good helps with confidence. Women are naturally better at picking up on subtle threads in social interactions. Women display their signs of interest and attraction differently to men, usually non verbally. They want you to take the initiative, it’s their first test. Be aware of non verbal cues.
Basic Signals.
Playing with her hair = “I want to be noticed.”
Shampoo commercial head swivel.
Playing with something or wringing her hands.
Tapping feet or drumming fingers.
Crossing legs along with other IOI’s.
Looking at you and then turning away quickly/darting eyes.
Quick talk, non-stop, saying nonsensical things.
Laughing loudly at something that isn’t very funny.
Moving in an exaggerated fashion.
Tugging down on her apparel in order to show you how thin she is.
Kinoing you. If this happens ESCALATE!
Always consider the context.
Being nervous shows that you care about doing well. She wants you to succeed, be interesting and seductive. Visualise yourself as a winner. Make your words sound impressive, deep and confident. Use the humming exercise. Speak very clearly, confidently and persuasively. Show proper emotion when needed. Speak loud and slow. Eye contact is important and you should keep eye contact 90% of the time. Pausing is also very important. Balance standing still and fidgeting by using hand gestures and facial expressions. Always point to things when talking about them and touch the woman when making a point. Feel comfortable in your own skin and maintain a good posture. Train yourself to respond to reactions. Know what your strong points are and use them to your advantage. NEVER apologize if you say or do something stupid or embarrassing.

I find that the section I have read up to seems to go more into depth. I'm assuming this is an important part of game and so I'm taking note Smile

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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:52 am

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Good stuff Nocturnatum. Glad you like our work. Spread the word!

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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 3:35 pm

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Thanks Wispy.. I'm trying my best to absorb and apply the information in this ebook. I've just finished the 'Inner Game' section and found some new interesting knowledge even though I've read a lot on the net.

This is my final installment for the Inner Game section.

Choice of diction is important. Everything you say must be positive and useful. Both inner and outer game are important as each other. They work collectively together. Inner game is like a foundation, it must be solid. Main categories of inner game are: Your internal mindset, View of yourself, View of Your place in the world, what You know you deserve, Your goals and ambitions, Your confidence, Believing that you will succeed, Your thought process and Your ability to keep calm and collected. If you believe that you will succeed, success will become your reality. Believe that you are powerful, dominant and desirable. Outer game is just as important as inner game. Main categories of outer game are: Openers, Routines, Techniques, Handling shit tests, Push/pull, Cocky and Funny, Conversation and teasing, Negs, Storytelling, Building Rapport, eliciting values and using props. Inner and outer game go together, they work hand in hand.

On the surface this seems like too much to learn but knowing that we are only human makes me believe that all of this can be fulfilled through study, action and review.

Now I'm moving onto the Outer Game section... Smile

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Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:04 pm

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OUTER GAME.

They say that Outer Game affects Inner Game. I've been spending so much time concentrating on building states, reframing my own reality and working on inner game stuff up until recently.
Lately I've been trying to focus on outer game in the sense that I'm fixing my inner game through my outer game.
I began reading the Crash Course quite some time ago but read the inner game section and concentrated on that part of my life.
Now my main focus is to continue improving my inner game and to work on the outer game according to the Crash Course.
I must add that I do quite a lot of reading and studying other pick up and seduction material besides The Paragon Project in which I plan to purchase TNB soon.
So here are my notes for the OUTER GAME section so far.

3 Main Objectives are Confidence, Humor and Challenge. These command interest.
Women are continually testing, selective, biologically and this is a static part of the dating game.
Confidence is about valuing yourself highly. The Trophy Mentality.
Women relate more to what is behind the humor. Fun and Playful.
Challenge is about showing you are higher in the primal pecking order. Hard to get.
Tease them in a Cocky and Funny way to achieve all three objectives.
Women testing you is a buying response. Interest.
Natural game and routines need to be practised to become good at seduction.
Approaching and opening should be done when you are in the right frame.
Kino should be done early on. Pay attention to IOIs.
Ask for contact details. If she says 'no' just walk away. If she gives it you say Thanks and bye.
Give her a neg before you leave. Be casual when setting up a date.
Mid Game. You need to initaite the 'spark' again. It's all about building comfort.
Remember to maintain your cocky and funny persona. Make her enjoy being with you.

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Posted: Wed Aug 18, 2010 5:50 pm

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Here's just a short instalment until tomorrow.

Negging is different to being a jerk.
Once she trusts you, try to LEAD her.
Show her that you are the leader in a relationship.
Allow things to flow naturally, step by step.
Women need more foreplay and setup than men do. Be patient and everything will come.
Kino escalate from basic touches to more sensual touches.
Initiate a make out session and then kiss her more passionately.
While she is still expoecting it, suddenly stop. Leave the room, let her think. When you re-enter the room kiss her again.
If she asks you to stop then stop. She needs to be turned on more - that's all. Act like it's no big deal.
She really wants to have sex, she just doesn't want you to know that.
Once she initiates the sexual contact and it's all HER idea, you will face no more resistance.
Once you have already had sex with her, it will be easier to do it again.

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Body language can affect your appearance, give you positive "energy," and make you a more attractive man as a result.
Walk with a smooth, confident, "swagger". Walk as if you own the world.
Adopt an alpha posture and bad boy type body language. be comfortable and take up space.
Use the concept of "active disinterest". Don't be too aggressive, and don't be too wimpy.
You must engage the girl in an ambiguous and interesting way.
Have her suspect you are interested, but have her unable to tell for sure.
Common Intruders; Hey, Yo, Hi, Hold It. Approach as quickly as possible.
Don't give fear time to set in, don't allow her the chance to leave, and don't let her witness you being a AFC loser. Just Go!
Women are more reponsive to a man with deep tonality. Speak from your diaphragm instead of your throat.
BE LOUD!
Be seen as a fun, outgoing, interesting person. Approach from an angle and subtly point your shoulder to the target.
BL should tell them you are cool, relaxed, somehwat interested, and in control.
It's much easier to recover from being too happy.

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Very nice overview so far keep it up. + Rep

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Posted: Thu Aug 19, 2010 5:21 pm

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Thanks for the Rep, it's much appreciated.. I'm loving the support here at Paragon Project. Hopefully someday I will be able to help others too.

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Getting better interactions with female friends in my social circle.So I'm guessing that I'm learning stuff from the Crash Course. Anyway here's my latest instalment.

Always remember: If you approach a woman there is always a chance that you will be rejected,
but if you never approach her at all, there is a 100% chance of rejection.
Take a breather. Practise in the field, practise in the mirror.
NEVER allow your nerves to overcome you. Instead make it work for you.
Practising the approach is the key to success. Nothing that is worth having happens overnight.
The way you conduct yourself when opening is a major part of your game that you need to master. Opening is important.
Establish eye contact and HOLD IT! Women love dominant men. Act confident.
The key to opening is Not to act like you are going to pick her up straight away.
Just appear fun and ready for conversation.

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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 10:22 pm

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Most guys don't approach groups because of the fear.
Remember: In a social setting, women of the highest calibre will always be found in groups!
Open UG's first. Don't have your stance as an IOI to your TOI.
Use your opener to transition and elevate yourself.
Befriend the UG's and neg your TOI. But don't flirt with the UG's.
Lock in to your TOI with a personal object while telling a story or eliciting responses and or building rapport.
When she tries to regain social status you should tease your TOI to the group.
Since you built up The Challenge with your TOI, she will be looking to regain her cool girl walk by impressing you with her value and demonstration of IOIs.
Eject with her or isolate her within the group adjusting your Kinesics..
Groups tend to generate riskier solutions. This can be used as leverage to your advantage in closing.

I just gotta say I absolutely love this section. Can't wait to start practising group dynamics.
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