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| Player87 |
 Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 10:17 am |
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Guys,
I want to get serious with you all about something that has been weighing heavily on my mind for the past few weeks. When I'm answering posts on the forum and looking around I see A LOT of people who post routines, openers, and other things. That's always cool because I'm all about new ideas, but then at the bottom of this new material they ask people to test it out for them. What the hell?!?
Put up or Shut up as we use to say way back when in school. Go out and do the work yourself! If you have a new routine or opener get out there and test it to see if you can make it work. Keep track of your results with it. Then when you have actually applied it multiple times in field (more than 10) and you know it works then share.
I like to write so I can come up with a lot of different stuff, but it doesn't mean it is going to work. The proof is entirely in the results. Many things I've come up with didn't work worth a damn in the field but looked great on paper. If you have something that you think would work, don't be afraid to put your balls on the line and try it out! Then if its working for you and you want to share it then great!
Otherwise we start having a forum full of untest or unproven information that someone maybe not as good as you is going to read and get killed with. The ideas of openers and routines is that they are proven techniques. I know stuff like "Who Lies More..." is old as dirt but it still works, and it works for lots of people. We know because Style and Mystery tested it...got great results, then passed it on to us! Routines and Openers like this are used to help people go out in the field and gain the confidence they need to move forward. Then later they can develop their own material.
Are you really that afraid of rejection that you won't go try it out for yourself? If that's the case then what the hell are you doing here. We are here to try something new in our lives cause whatever we did in the past wasn't working. Part of this is the ability to embrace rejection and learn from it.
So...Put Up or Shut Up!
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| bigblue |
| Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:05 am |
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| Fresh Meat |
| Posted: Wed Feb 10, 2010 5:26 pm |
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| Player87 for president! |
Getting rejected is a billion times better than not approaching at all!
They're just learning experiences that'll make you better in the end !
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K-Close- 2 ( don't look at these numbers , they mean shit , it's all about what you do ! the list is just for myself to give me some confidence after a bad experience with a girl ) |
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| Sparks |
| Posted: Wed Feb 10, 2010 8:33 pm |
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agreed however i think its a little different if someone is basically telling people to go and try a tested technique i mean if i come up with a technique or some advice,its already been tried and tested but then if i tell people to try it out for themselves so they too can benefit then isnt put up or shut up a little harsh? i do agree on the point that if it is someone simply saying
''hey ive thought of this, what do you think, wanna see if it works, for me?''
then yes,there was no point posting in the first place if you havent tested it then its not for the boards and they would be better off just not posting at all |
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It's all just a GAME.
o The more you play, the better you get.
o If you fail, you simply start again.
o You are the main character, the Sonic, the Mario, the Megaman.
o As you progress, you upgrade. Better clothes, better physique, better weapons to beat any girl that you come across.
o There will be obstacles, just like any other game.
o If you win, you get rewarded. The rewards are limitless.
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| IceBreaker |
| Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 6:52 pm |
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| Player87 |
| Posted: Sun Apr 04, 2010 10:48 am |
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If you went to the batting cages but never even touched a baseball bat before, would you start out in the fastest cage? If you get extremely nervous when talking to women, then you shouldn't be trying to approach the type of hot women that you are attracted to, you need practice first.
The best way to practice is with women that you don't really like that much, because you won't care about the outcome and have much less reason to be nervous. If you like slim girls, then go practice gaming some big chicks. If you like pretty faces, then go practice on some women that have nice bodies but only average faces |
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