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| Xiao |
 Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 1:29 pm |
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Thurdsday, me and some friends were in a club.
We went to go for a wee, and when going through the crowd, I passed some hot girl (my friends confirmed it was a solid 9 or 9,5). I was in a good mood, so I was dancing while moving through the crowd. When I passed her, she noticed me and started dancing with me. I didn't pay much attention to it and I moved on.
She kept checking me out for the next 10 meters I walked, she was obviously into me.
I really had to take a piss, so I decided to do that first and talk to her later.
When I returned I gently touched her on the shoulder and asked her how she was doing. After exchanging our names (I didn't even understand hers because the music was too loud) and age, I blacked out and didn't know what else to say. So I said "oh, my friend is gone, i better go too".
I think she saw that as rejection, because the next time I passed her, she completely ignored my presence.
Are there some basic things you can say in a club?
I know I should ask her stuff about the surroundings etc, but 'do you come here often?' and 'do you like this kind of music?' sounds very lame.
I was hoping to make a list of like 20 different things to say for the next time we go clubbing, but I have no idea what... |
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| CMtheMasterPiece |
| Posted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 1:18 am |
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Brother your thinking too much into it. Its never about what you say that attracts a girl its how you act and cary yourself as a man. You do that everything will fall into place.
Point is it dosnt matter what you say but more on how you say it. You can say anything and said in the right way its not going to matter.
Save any real deep conversational topics later in the "relationship" though. |
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| Xiao |
| Posted: Tue Feb 09, 2010 4:49 am |
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| I know that, but I even fail to make up enough material for a standard conversation. |
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| Jade |
| Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:13 pm |
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| Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:38 pm |
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Like CM said, don't think so hard. Say whatever's on your mind. It really is "the way you say it". A guy from "The Pickup Artist: Season 2" told a girl that he likes pickle juice, out of the blue. Guess what, it worked. If he could get away with saying that, you can get away with saying most things if you say it right.
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| hobosex |
| Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:58 pm |
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I use pickle juice all the time! It catches them off guard and always starts an interesting conversation  It really really has nothing to do with what you say! |
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