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| ChrisJones |
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| is it our age? how do the alphas at our high-schools do it everyday? im in the same boat as you guys by the way. |
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| GrindinUrBed |
| Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2010 6:53 pm |
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ChrisJones wrote: is it our age? how do the alphas at our high-schools do it everyday? im in the same boat as you guys by the way.
I don't know how to explain this, but I think that they're either just born with the high, stable confidence or just so constantly pumped up by other people that it never has opportunity to go down. Us on the other hand who don't neccesarily have those qualities have to fight for it everyday until we finally truly achieve it.
On to today.
First period was pretty lame, talked to a couple of friends but aside from that there was absolutely 0 game taking place.
Third period definitely had some game to it. We had some guy training to be a teacher in the back of the class so our normal teacher was a lot more strict and didn't let us get off with as much as we mess around normally. But anyways it was me and my good mexican friend and some two chicks. He was with the HB6.5 flirting around messing with her and shit, he's a natural but his game is direct as shit so there are some girls that aren't so receptive to what he does and others really enjoy it, mostly sluts. I was with the HB8 Arabgirl just doing some teasing and trying to build some rapport by asking what she was wearing to formal and just talking about it I got some kino in by taking some marker she was using and she'd always try to get it back from me. ( Yes I've got some kiddy style game.  ) That went on for the rest of the class and at the end I ended up putting the marker in my back pocket to see if she would grab it, which she didn't so I kept it 'til the end of the day.
Lunch was shit and needs no mention, it was just plain boring.
5th period was pretty sick, hung around with my fellow Mexi and worked with 4 girls for some miniproject. The girls probably would get a 6.5, 7, UG, and 8. The 7 is a real slut though like I said before so I'm not really interested in her but I still game and try random shit on her. There was a decent bit of Kino done on our part. I smacked the 8 on the ass but she's kind of a bitchy girl and didn't react nicely, I just smiled and brushed it off though. I don't think she'd care that much. Also when class was ending the 6.5 grabbed my hand and made me grab the slut's ass. I actually didn't talk all that much though. I spent most of the class doing work.
Afterschool I saw the HB8 again, tapped her on the shoulder and gave the marker back to her. She gave me a huge smile and said thanks. She really gives off a lot of IOI's, too bad she's taken. Day was done after that. |
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| Posted: Sun Feb 07, 2010 3:27 pm |
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So, formal was last night and I had a lot of fun. No k-closes or anything but a lot of grinding and dancing and it was really cool.
Started out the night with a couple of friends and one of their dads teaching us how to tie a tie while we were getting ready. We drove off to go over to formal and stopped in at a taco bell looking like total ballers and everyone was looking at us. Just had to throw that in there. Anyways, we got to formal and were greeted by a group of like 6-7 friends that we'd be dancing with for quite a while and walked in side.
So on to the dance floor. Note: I'm not a good dancer at all but I tried my best. I was with my big group of people and we were dancing around for a good hour or so just normally, jerking, and some other random shit but it was pretty fun. After that hour me and my friends decided it was time to grind so we got the girls which were both HB7.5's and got a line started. We did that for a couple of songs but the two girls had to leave so we said our goodbyes and began on our quest to grind as many people as we could. We also had a side thing of whoever got a kiss would win our little competition but I couldn't find any of my TOI's so that was out of the question.
One of my friends was really fucking outgoing and would just go into groups and get some grinding started. I still had a little bit of AA when it came to dancing so I was a little hesitant most of the time. I did push myself though and ended up grinding somewhere around 5 chicks even though I was a little dissappointed because I knew I could've done way better. Either way it was sick and I realized that black girls are not only way more fun to dance with most of the time but that they're also more open to it seeing as half of the white ones we asked weren't up for it.
My only real problem was really initiating the grinding, I wasn't too sure how to get it started.
And boom, the night was done at 12.
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| GrindinUrBed |
| Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 6:42 pm |
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So guess what guys? I've been a poopface and bitched out on 2 very possible K-closes over the last two days. I'm seriously what the fucking my self because I'm being such a pussy and not doing it.
Anyways I'll write them seperately and then my reports for the day.
Possible K-Close yesterday.
My family had a super bowl party and had invited a shit ton of people so we had a ton of kids over and one of the people brought over some HB8 which is what this will revolve around. We'll start out with around the beginning of the night when we were hanging out upstairs at my house with a ton of people. I got a bit tired of watching the superbowl so I decided to yell out her name so she would turn around so I could take a bad picture of her. I basically did that because I really hadn't spoken to her much yet at that point and it's usually a good way to start her off kinoing you by having her trying to take your phone and it just starts things a little playful. She decided to try to have her vengeance on me so we had a picture war and we were both trying to get really bad ones of eachother which was pretty fun and she actually got a bad one of me. After the superbowl was over all of us including the kids decided to play cops and robbers. Sounds lame but it's where I had my chance so read on.
My team started out cops and she was on the other team. We started off the game and right off the bat she ran way out of the boundaries we had set where no one else was and it was also pretty dark since it was a bit late. I chased her up and caught her pretty quickly even though she left me winded and I arrested her and took her back holding her by the waist and arm which was like a 2 minute walk but because I was tired I couldn't say much. Fast forward to like 10 minutes later and same scenario. This time though she was a little more playful and I just had the vibe something could happen. Here's how the conversation went and what I had planned on saying which goes with rattisse's sexual priming but I bitched out and didn't do it.
It was just one line from each of us but looking back I fucked up, you tell me what you think.
Her: I'm tiredddd.
Me: Sorry but criminals don't get a break, you've gotta go to jail.
Then quiet all the way back.
What I believe I should have said for the K-close was this.
"Hey, ask again and I'm gonna have to give you mouth to mouth."
It seemed perfect to me because she was winded and breathing a little hard but anyways you guys tell me 'cus I fucked up.
Done with #1.
Time for fuck up #2
Alright this one doesn't need near as much explaining but it's some HB8 I talked about before that has a really nice ass and legs. Anyways it's pretty simple. I was walking over to some restaurant after school with her and a group of like 8 other friends just to go eat and fuck around. ( As a note: I've already had this girl sit on my lap, grabbed her ass, and a ton of other shit just never a Kiss which I'm pretty sure she'd be into. ) With that behind I don't really need to mention any other kino that happened on the way because it was pretty minor. Anyways we walked up to the door of the place and I had her by herself just me and her outside after everyone had already gone in so I decided to play around and told her to tell me the password to get in. She guessed some lame shit like "please" and I wasn't letting her in and all of a sudden she just got quiet and looked at me. ( She had a look that I can't really describe but I've seen the same thing from other girls that wanted to kiss me so I assume it was for the same reason ) I knew exactly what I could've done in that situation but I fucked it over and didn't do anything.
Any feedback or ways to get over this problem would be greatly appreciated. I don't know if I've said this before but I'm pretty good at escalating girls to the point of where they'd want to kiss but I never go for the close which bars me off from all other kinds of escalation. That's pretty much all and fuck me. |
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| ChrisJones |
| Posted: Mon Feb 08, 2010 7:38 pm |
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ya k-closing takes balls, but it is just a matter of stretching that comfort zone. i need to work on learning to k-close as early as possible.
btw. i like your gaming style. very playful, which is all you really need. thats what i aim for as well. |
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| GrindinUrBed |
| Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 9:28 pm |
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Alright, haven't been very active writing this shit mostly because I've been real lazy but lets get back to it.
No first period today, our classes rotate so certain ones get left out every day.
Second period was chill. It was mostly me riding around in little shopping cart types of things and carrying huge stage equipment easily over 100 pounds up and down a ship ladder which is basically slanted like this -> /. It's scary because if you miss a step you end up sliding down and falling 10 feet straight into a door, or if you're unlucky the concrete wall. I did build some rapport with some guys that are pretty high value and I'm chill with but not quite friends yet. Aside from that there was just a little bit of eye contact with the HB8 from the class and she's been giving me quite a few SOI's lately mostly through text.
Third period was pretty good. We were doing some group work where you rotate between partners and I got to do a decent bit of talking and kino with the HB8Arabgirl and the HB7 in that class. I think I built a little bit of rapport by helping her with some of her work during class but I'm not sure if that would be considered rapport. ( I know it's super minimal, but hey it's something ) We had to get up and move seats every couple of minutes as part of the activity we were doing and at one point we were racing to the same chair and I got there first right as she was going to sit down so she ended up sitting on my lap for a couple of seconds. Normally I would think it as just normal playing around, but being that she has a bf and still lingered for a little I get the feeling it was more of an XIOI.
Fourth period was pretty uneventful, just listened to music with my friend and bobbed my head back and forth to the beat of it most of the time. It was fun though.
Lunch was pretty gay. Sure there was some joking around like always but nothing real interesting in terms of game.
Fifth period was okay, mostly doing a test but got a little bit of kino and some rapport in with some HB8 that's always eyeing me.
Nothing happened during sixth period I was just hard at work.
Seventh period was really lame but I did do a bit of kino with the HB8 that I talked about in second period. Basically it was really cold outside so I just hugged her real tight and kept her warm for a little while. Aside from that I just walked around school and got picked up a little while later a bit early because I got bored.
I did have a little realization though that I've got my game pretty tight right now, I'm still far from being a PUA but I've realized I completely lead my group and the girls usually hang around them mostly to be with me. I think the only thing holding me back from being the shit on campus is my value. I've gotta keep up building rapport with everyone and throw my value into the fucking sky. I know it'll do me good.
That's it for today. Grind, out.  |
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| GrindinUrBed |
| Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 11:50 pm |
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Sorry for the lack of updates, this week has been fucking terrible in terms of gaming. It's not that my game's been off, I just haven't seen people very much because I've been sick or they haven't been at school.
Anyways lets start this up.
Today we started with second period. There were really no TOI's or even HB's around at all except for a group of sluts that kept telling me and my good friend who's a natural that we were hot while we were doing painting. We also decided to paint on them a bit since the fuckers were bugging us .
Third period was pretty uneventful but it was still pretty fun. It was a normal class except for the fact that because I spoke out once the teacher moved me because she hates me. HB8Arabgirl did ask me for help on some question though and I was trying to help her but the fucking question was beyond me. Either way I think I built a little bit of rapport so not too bad.
Nothing much happened in 4th except for learning that the teacher of the class which is undoubtedly the coolest teacher in the school is being forced to resign.
5th period brought back a really old feeling I haven't fuckin' felt in forever but it's kind of helped push me a little to try harder. I don't remember what exactly we were talking about but I was with some friend talking about our veins for some reason and she just jumps in and kino's me by grabbing my arm to look at it. <-XIOI ( Note: this chick is an HB7.5 who's always giving me eye contact but I haven't spoken to much. ) Anyways that was nothing big, I tried teasing her but it just didn't really get a reaction and plus class was starting so she walked away to sit down.
During the middle of the class I noticed her eyes were just wandering around so I decided to make eye contact with her to see how she'd respond. She caught my gaze. She threw in a smile after a couple of seconds maintaining it and I returned it as well. But for some reason for the first fucking time in god knows how long I actually got nervous and broke it first. It's been forever since I couldn't maintain eye contact with a girl, I felt like a pussy for it not because I couldn't hold out for long but because I actually got nervous.
I also haven't really thought of any way to open her, help me out? I was thinking of trying talking to chicks like I would if she was a friend to make it feel more comfortable but I'm not the best at keeping conversations going so it bugs me.
Nothing really happened after that but it was a real interesting day in a way to me and feedback would be sick.
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| I'd just start off by being friendly and sayin hey with the HB 7.5. Say hey and stuff. Then you can start to ask her how she's doing and stuff. Be playful in conversation! Don't worry about what you say; just say it with confidence and it should go smoothly |
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| Posted: Mon Mar 01, 2010 9:06 pm |
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Yeah...It's been forever since I made a post on here but I've been pretty busy lately and I've been away, plus I haven't had much room to game but there's shit to say so lets get to it.
Pd. 1 - Honestly I did absolutely nothing in terms of game, our fucking teacher always makes us do work in groups of 3's but my friends are like more tight with other people so I usually work solo or with some lower value kids which is kind of a bitch and also will lead to some little thing I've realized that I'll write up lower down.
Pd. 2 - This was theater, nothing happened with chicks here either although the teacher decided that some painting project I had done was shit and failed me, yelled at me and my friend, and being that we're both mexican even pulled the language card on us which really pissed me off. Wasn't having a good start to the day.
Pd. 3 - Mostly just talking to friends when I got the chance because the teacher has me off in a corner and my good friend in the class in the complete opposite corner with nobody around us because we tend to talk a lot. Also the HB8 seems to be giving a shitlot of IOI's to some other kid in my class and seems way less interested in me so I see that bitch as a lost cause.
Lunch - It was pretty fun, hung out with friends as always but there are things that really bug me about my friends sometimes. Aside from the fact that they aren't necessarily very high value they always tease the chicks we hang out with ( in our core group ) and always overdo it and piss them off. I know in some way this affects my value and I don't like it because It's hard to game a girl when she's mad. Although I have gotten a lot of IOI's lately from all of them. I realize that I'm pretty confident 7-8 most of the time but the fact that I'm not seen as very high value at my school fucks me up from gaming some chicks. Although as a side note, most girls I talk to generally do show a lot of IOI's but after a couple of weeks it just fades away.
Pd. 5 - This was a pretty gay class, listened to my teacher lecture us and just played around and talked to some HB 7 who I've pretty much friend zoned but she still flirts with me. Not much happened with the HB 7.5.
Pd. 6 - Nothing, just worked and accidentally launched some two pound spring which hit my friend in the face at like 30mph which was funny as hell.
Pd. 7 - Went off campus to go eat with some friends, no girls until we got back. Had the HB8 walk up to me and gave her a big hug and talked for a bit. Totally blanked the fuck out and had nothing to say for a good 10 seconds but afterwards I talked to her for a bit and had her laughing and smiling.
Side note: Me and my friend started a little bet since he just broke up with his GF and I haven't gotten ass in awhile. There's some concert coming up and we both bet a decent amount of cash that we are going to go there with a girlfriend. I don't think it should be very hard at all, but it'll help me step up my game and start doing things with chicks again so I won't have hesitancy escalating in the future.
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| Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 11:03 pm |
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Note for the day - I was tired as shit so I didn't have as much energy as normal during the first part of it, but I still felt really up there in confidence.
Pd. 1 - No gaming, just work work work which is always fun. :/
Pd. 2 - Got to use the saws in the shop for the first time which was pretty sick, I get entertained very easily and that definitely did it. No gaming.
Pd. 4 - Not a lot of talking to chicks in here, there's one HB 7.5 and 2 HB 7's in there but I don't sit nearby them I just talk to my friends most of the time.
Lunch - Everything was going pretty well here today, had fun talking with my friends and also feel like I made some progress with some 17yr old HB 8.25 which oddly is a freshie but she hangs with us and is pretty cool.
Unfortunately I don't exactly remember what was said, I just remember it was about something sexual and I know it was like a subtle SOI. I'm also probably going to see her along with 5-10 TOI's at a big upcoming concert, all of which I have a good chance with and it's also very likely i'll be seeing 2 of my ex's there. Lifes a bitch haha.
Pd. 6 - We really don't have any HB's in here so it's almost always just work or playing around with friends.
Pd. 7 - No gaming, went to go eat pizza with some friends and had a good time.
Afterschool - HB8 that usually talks to me afterschool did the same again. Nothing special about the conversation just flirting, but she did give me a more intense hug than normal. I know this chick really wants me, but I've got a lot of opportunity in the very near future so we'll see about an LTR.
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| Posted: Wed Mar 03, 2010 11:46 pm |
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Pd. 1 - Nothing interesting as usual, work. But possibly built some rapport with some higher value friends.
Pd. 3 - Pretty gay as normal, flirted around a tiny bit with the Hb6.5 though since she was around and her and the HB8 tried to come talk/work with me and my friend but the teacher is a bitch and sent them off.
Pd. 4 - No gaming got lectured by some professor from one of the local Uni's but after class some HB8 called my name out while I was walking to lunch so I talked to her for a bit. Not the best convo but I did have her smiling a bit which I'm good at doing so we'll see what goes from there.
Lunch - Very interesting, not gamewise at all but my friend told some ridiculously gross made up stories involving himself and a baseball bat. Also kino'd and flirted a bit with the 17yr old HB8.5. She left a comment on my facebook saying "miss ya budddddd" seems like she might be getting more attracted.
Pd. 5 - Not much gaming just usual flirting but 2 things worth noting here, one gamewise one not. First one is I was doing some work in the class and we all had to move around and copy info from poster type things and the HB7.5 that makes heavy eyecontact was sitting on the counter next to where I was writing. I did a tiny bit of indirect kino by brushing my arm against her leg while I was writing. Don't know if that would have any effect but she didn't move at all and I feel like writing it. 
Second thing is not so much on a light note. This one kid who is way too cocky for his own good although I'm chill with him when he isn't dicking around, likes to slap me *not too hard* or punch me on the arm or w/e for no reason usually. It's really pissing me off after I've shown him that it bothers me so I'm going to confront him about it tomorrow. I'll probably give him some serious as shit look and tell him "You'd better fucking calm down with your hitting shit, if not then don't be afraid to be hit back". Sure he's a little bigger than me but I doubt he has the confidence to push it any further, although if he does I'm pretty sure I'd have to fight him. I box and weightlift though and I don't believe he has fight experience so it'd be interesting.
Pd. 6 - Nothing
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| Posted: Thu Mar 04, 2010 12:04 am |
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GrindinUrBed wrote:
Second thing is not so much on a light note. This one kid who is way too cocky for his own good although I'm chill with him when he isn't dicking around, likes to slap me *not too hard* or punch me on the arm or w/e for no reason usually. It's really pissing me off after I've shown him that it bothers me so I'm going to confront him about it tomorrow. I'll probably give him some serious as shit look and tell him "You'd better fucking calm down with your hitting shit, if not then don't be afraid to be hit back". Sure he's a little bigger than me but I doubt he has the confidence to push it any further, although if he does I'm pretty sure I'd have to fight him. I box and weightlift though and I don't believe he has fight experience so it'd be interesting.
School over, grind out.
Chances are he won't just back down like a little pussy. that would be a huge dlv for him and he knows it.
Be unreactive in this situation. He probably keeps doing it since he gets a reaction out of you. and you would just be making him happier by reacting even more to it. |
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| Posted: Thu Mar 04, 2010 12:11 am |
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Sup Grindin, this guy is trying to AMOG you. I have a similar friend who likes to get physical. What you want to do is get a little more physical than him. If he hits you, hit him a bit harder. Keep raising the bar until he backs off. If he gets serious, fuck him up.
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#1 wrote: Sup Grindin, this guy is trying to AMOG you. I have a similar friend who likes to get physical. What you want to do is get a little more physical than him. If he hits you, hit him a bit harder. Keep raising the bar until he backs off. If he gets serious, fuck him up.
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i disagree. thats risky. being unreactive is the key. there will always be guys who amog you and chances are that a lot of the time you wont be able to "fuck them up."
just appear to be unphased by shit and display to the amog that it is more beneficial for him to be friends with you than enemies (through your value). |
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| Posted: Thu Mar 04, 2010 12:35 am |
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alright, so I believe I'm going to at least at first do what #1 mentioned since I did that a bit today, he shoved me so I did it a bit harder back. So its pretty much what had been my original idea. Its hard not being reactive though because if there's one thing that pisses me off is when someone hits me out of nowhere, even more when they, like this kid, don't let you hit back. If you've ever heard of the game where you make a circle with 2 of the fingers and put it anywhere below your waist where if the person looks at it then you get to punch them/give them a dead arm. I used to do that with him but he always pussies out and doesn't let me do it back to him.
He's probably 10-20 pounds heavier than me, but I don't believe he has the confidence to back it up.
Whatever happens thanks for the feedback guys it's always appreciated, and thanks for dealing with my ranting. You've just gotta let it out sometimes.[/list] |
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